My 10 most crucial things every woman should keep in mind when thinking about having a baby
Children are a blessing!! I do agree 100% coz I love mine very much BUT I have exceptions 😶😬. I like them when they are babies from 0-8 months and 4+😉. I think every woman should be allowed a vacation when their baby turns 2 but I am down for a long vacation right after they turn 1 coz right now, I am trying real hard to contain myself and not go insane. The nonsense cries and attitudes is getting me close to losing my patience😠. Lately I have found myself talking a lot about “babies and the lots of issues they come with” and “how difficult they can be.” I talk about the struggles so much because for one, I am so babie’d out and for two, I need my sleep back. Screw everything. Truthfully, I am drained. I wish I could have a nanny😓.
Anyway, for the women wishing to have a baby or babies, this is my suggestion for you; if your life allows, just have them back to back. Don’t wait 10 years later to have your number 2,3 etc because it gets real hard. I understand their is a brighter side to waiting long if you already have other children coz they will be grown and can help out but nah, it is not a joke.
#1. It’s a HARD job!!!
#2. It’s important to do it with the Right person (man)
#3. It’s Economically draining!!
#4. At least plan to Stay Home for the first 2-3 years (this is for your own good)
#5. Expect to feel Guilty,
#6. You wont be the Best mom you think you are going to be, Nope!
#7. Make sure you are Stable Mentally and Emotionally, if not, DO NOT do it!
#8. Arrange a good Support system, your gonna need it!
#9. Be very Sure that you are really Ready for a baby
#10. PLAN when to start a family or to have babies. Do not to just POP them because the “moment” felt good.